Love and Sex

Disclaimer: This article is written for the mature audience. The naive people may not understand the essence of this article.

Let’s be real:
Most people are so indoctrinated by the beliefs of society that they don’t truly understand love and sex.
In many gatherings it’s considered as a taboo. People don’t talk about it. That’s why they misunderstand love and sex.

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Vibrational frequency is real, it impacts reality. That’s why the message of highly influential people is listened and followed by many.

I’m here as an eye-opener. Everything you’re about to read is from my wisdom, my life experiences, my emotions, and science. I’ve already written over 30 articles on love that have touched hundreds of people. This is my favorite topic. So don’t expect some random rambling here,  tighten your belt and digest this in.

Sex isn’t love, and love isn’t sex.

These two originate from different places inside of your body.

• Lust creates sexual feelings, and it can happen with anyone, anywhere, anytime. Every single person on this planet can do it.
• Love, on the other hand, is rare. Not everyone is capable of it. And sadly, many people use the fake face of love just to feed their libido.

The world is full of manipulators. They’ll play every tactic to get what they want.
But, My readers, I want you to be the kind of people who can smell them from miles away. And I also want you to find that one person who truly loves you from the bottom of their heart. Only then you should submit to them, and do some romance.
You have to respect yourself, your body and soul. You shouldn’t act like those street girls and boys.
Your positive energy should vibrate in the gatherings you enter in.

Rapists also do sex. Animals too have sex. Some people sell their bodies for it. In Western culture, sex work is a profession, and that mindset is spreading worldwide.

Why is sex glorified in movies and music videos?
Because they know exactly how the human brain works. They know you’ll be drawn to those visuals, and your attention means their profit. It’s a deep emotion, and most people can’t resist it. Only a few can.

SEX and LOVE in ancient Philosophies:

In many ancient philosophies, sex was seen as divine. No religion calls it shameful or “dirty act” by nature, they all have rules, but in many traditions it’s openly celebrated.

Islam:
An act of worship (ibadah) within marriage; brings reward and mutual pleasure. Strictly private and prohibited outside marriage.
Source: Qur’an 2:187; Sahih Muslim 1006.

Hinduism:
In Tantra, sex is sacred, the union of Shiva and Shakti. Kama Sutra sees pleasure as one of life’s goals.
Source: Kama Sutra; Kularnava Tantra.

Christianity:
A gift from God for marital unity and procreation; celibacy honored in some traditions.
Source: Genesis 2:24; Hebrews 13:4.

Buddhism:
Sexual desire is seen as an attachment that can block enlightenment. Laypeople may have ethical sex; monks and nuns are celibate.
Source: Digha Nikaya 31; Five Precepts.

Did you get it? No one fully bans sex, because most humans can’t completely give it up.

But love…

That’s where most people fail. When someone asks me the hardest thing in the world, I have one answer: LOVE.

The highest level of love is when you fully surrender and submit to your partner, and it only lasts if both of you truly understand each other. You won’t “get” real love by reading about it. Only those who’ve been there know.

Romance in love is natural,  that’s just biology.
You’re drawn to the opposite gender, and when it’s your lovemate, intimacy grows and often leads to sex. But wise people know how to keep it pure.

Christianity: No sex before marriage; it’s a divine gift for marital unity and procreation.
Islam: No sex before marriage; within marriage, it’s worship (ibadah) and brings reward.
Atheism: No fixed rule; they follow their own code, and most are fine with sex before marriage.

Here’s the truth:

Sex is an instinct. Love is a choice.
One comes from your body, the other from your soul.

Sex can be bought, stolen, faked, or forced. Love cannot.
You can share a bed with someone without ever touching their heart, and you can hold someone’s heart without ever touching their body.

If you chase only sex, you’ll always be hungry.
If you choose love, you’ll be full for life.

The blend of sex and love, let you explore it, given that you follow the ethical rules.

Sex may satisfy you for a night, but love  “true love” can light your whole lifetime.

One day I’ll share my personal story on it and the rule I live by. But that will be when this article hits 10,000 views and 100 comments.
You will get the link of that at the end of this article.

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