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Such type of life-changing articles require time to curate for you. So read it attentively, it may change your vision and help you to choose your partner for life.
In this bustling world, people are like pigeons.
If I show you a flock of pigeons and ask you to remember any specific one, you’ll face a challenge.
Every pigeon looks the same, making it difficult to distinguish one from another.
However, if you observe a particular pigeon over a long period, you’ll begin to notice its unique traits. Eventually, you’ll be able to identify it in the flock.
People are similar to those pigeons. It’s hard to truly understand a person in just a moment. It takes time to recognize their qualities and uniqueness.
When it comes to understanding someone, especially a potential life partner, you must give it time.
Choosing a life partner requires observation and patience. You must be wise enough to seek delayed gratification.
In the beginning it’s natural to feel attracted to someone, that’s how human biology works.
You may even fall in love. But after some time, you should take a step back and scrutinize their life.
You need to ask yourself: Is this person truly right for me?
Can he/she genuinely care for me? Is this person a good match?
Ask yourself different questions. If the answers are positive, continue.
If not, it may be best to step away.
Two Stages in Love with a partner:
1) Feeling Stage:
This is the stage where you share stories, experiences, and emotions. It may last for months. Here, you are infatuated, deeply drawn to your partner. You don’t question things. Here logical thinking doesn’t work. You think emotionally.
2) Evaluation Stage:
In this stage, you must think about the future with that person based on past conversations and interactions. It’s essential to decide whether to stay with them or move on.
The second stage is crucial. If your relationship isn’t going well, it’s likely because you haven’t reached this second stage yet. It’s time to step into the evaluation stage.
Envision your future with that person.
Be courageous enough to make the tough decision, whether to continue the relationship or walk away..
Most people fail in taking the decisions, they often find themselves stuck in unfulfilling relationships, unable to grow or find peace.
As always, my message is: Dream for Peace.
Be with the person with whom you feel comfort even during the worst times.
Remember, true love is not just about how someone makes you feel in the moment, but how they stand by you in the storms of life. Choose with wisdom, not impulse.
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